A comment re-post

As per Phenson's request, I am re-posting this so that my ex in-laws don't miss it. I think that is why I am re-posting. Either way, it's well worth doing.

Phenson said...

I support this post 100%, and to my ex-family (I consider myself an orphan) revel in the end result of your selfish, petty, and stubborn behaviors that pushed her where you always wanted her, away from me. Many times, completely distraught, crying, panicked, I pleaded and begged you not to exclude my wife the way you did. But you did not care, you couldn't stand that I ran away from you and was so happy with her. 

You crushed my whole world, you destroyed everything I ever truly loved, you killed the only thing I was sure of, the one thing I searched for so long to find. You didn't care how in love we were, how much we adored each other, how incredibly uncommon our bond was, she wasn't what you wanted for me, and you made it WELL known every single time we needed any kind of help and had to lean on you. You acted like borrowing money to us gave you the right to belittle, pass judgement, and be flat out cruel to my wife. Job well done, you got what you wanted, she's gone. But so am I, because before things snowballed with the divorce, YOU ignored the simplest of requests, you didn't like her and couldn't be bothered with making her feel welcome, you couldn't even go grocery shopping with her, you were always too busy. But you had plenty of time to gossip and talk shit about her behind her back, while lying to her face. You were too old, too lazy, too controlling, too busy, selfish, petty, hypocritical, stubborn, malicious, and jealous little bitches, and pissed on the one thing that made me truly happy to be alive. It has been 2 years, and NO, it has not gotten easier, I am in constant agony over losing her, agony over what my family put her through, agony over the things I let you beat into me and how I let you manipulate me into doing your will through my divorce, because that will never go away, I can never repair that damage, and it fucking hurts every moment of every day, watching her rebuild hers and the kids lives through the extra hardships we have caused for her and them. 

My broken heart, shattered dreams, and complete hopelessness comes from YOU, not her, and if it weren't for her, I'd have killed myself to escape this nightmare a long time ago, but it is her compassion that has intervened. I owe her my life, and I'll spend the rest of my life loving, caring, and helping her no matter where she is in life, because she deserves nothing less.

August 4, 2010 4:50 AM 

Oh Megan...

Hide my ass, doesn't work *that* well and it doesn't work at all when you're checking from your iPhone lol. You know, if you want to know about me so badly... you could always ask me.

You could have treated me better when I was married to your brother. You could have treated him better his whole life. You could get over yourself and realize how much you fuck up the lives of those who meet you. Poor Christy, never saw you coming when you stole her husband from her.

I would ask if it's painful for you to read that, but I know you're heartless. Hell, if it wasn't for your mom and your parents money, you'd have no one and nothing. Kind of sad.

No worries. I still love ya! Kisses! Oh, and give your mommy kisses for me too. <3 Oh, here is a reference book for your future surgery choices. Hope it helps!

My ex in-laws

Are hypocritical, judgmental, and crooked.

Spying on me on the internet... or trying to... as if I have a secret life. Then emailing my ex about it, as if he gives a rats ass about what the have to say (They have been dead to him for over a year.) or about what they told him.

They think they're so perfect, they're so self ritious it's pathetic... and they have NO sense of family what-so-ever. The wrote off their completely innocent, then 3 year old, granddaughter. They don't give a shit that she is about to have no home, and that they played a HUGE role in that. They don't care about her birthday, or Christmases missed with her. Nope, they're too high and mighty.

Tell you what, Karma... is a bitch and I hope it swallows them whole. I always said that after suffering from anxiety and agoraphobia, I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.... that is the least of what I feel they deserve in life.

Maybe I will just go ahead and pursue all the charges against them that I was going to let go. After all, they caused hell in my life, it seems fair that I cause some in theirs.

To the Anderson and the Ferreris "families" HAHA.... kiss my pretty white ass, no wait, you don't even deserve that privilege.

P.S. Megan... since your ugly ass had to get so much plastic surgery to look semi-decent... although jesus christ went a bit nuts with the big Jay Leno chin... are you going to do the same if your kids end up looking like the real you? What if they act like you? Is there a surgery for that?