Common sense.

You're trying to hurt me, but you're not. You're hurting everyone else. Even the innocent.

Rather than turning your tendencies towards me and accusing me of the very things you proved beyond a doubt you do, you should look inside.

Your "family" is different from any I have ever seen before. I have never seen a family so inside itself, so judgmental of those outside it, all of those outside it. I don't know if you view this is a strength, but it isn't. Sometimes, it's worth it to let someone in. The money they make or their past life experiences shouldn't matter one bit. What should matter is that they care and that they do and want to do what is right in life. Although, I guess that would be hard to recognize when those goals aren't your own.

I am sincerely sad for the Anderson "family" especially Andy, because I can see deep down, he would rather do the right thing than the malicious stinging things you all seem to choose to do.

I still have refrained from personal attack. I haven't taken the verbal diarrhea you've had and flung it back on you. Do you know why? Because I don't believe it's right.

My post, my only posts about any of this between your family and Stephen was made here. You turned it into war because you were mentioned. The one post, then became posts. Those posts were made here after he came to me with the issue. Had he not, I would likely still not know. I came here protective of him, Stephen, your brother, your son, your blood. Not against me, but from his own family. In turn you spit your venom at me and I was okay with that. But you can't just keep it on me, you have to hurt as many people as you can.

Stalk away, I clearly cannot stop you and I must be absolutely fascinating since you seem to seek me out all over the internet. But back off of those I care about. Leave the innocent children out of it. Leave the by-standers alone. If you have a problem and it lies with me, then so be it. But deal with me. If you have problems with others, I don't need to hear them, so stop directing them towards me.

The plain and simple truth of the matter is I can't change you. I can't change any of you. You have a niece and a granddaughter in MN who still loves you all dearly and cannot fathom why you want nothing to do with her. Yet you pushed her aside as if she were no more than a dust bunny to be swept off. It's really, very sad. But apparently you don't see it or care.

I am done with all of this. I am done defending other people to you. If you have a qualm with me, then by all means, bring it to me and let us deal with it. Otherwise, keep it to yourself. Wishing others to burn in hell, will only bring you hell itself, no matter what your belief. Since you claim to be Christian, judge not, lest the be judged yourself.  That might be something to try to practice before it's too late. Life is precious and can be gone in a flash. Don't waste it with hate.

For crying out loud.

Megan... If reading and comprehension are my issues, yours must surely be counting and writing. Yikes.

Moodie

On Thursday 3rd February 2011, @moodienews said:

I don't TWEET about my father having a fucking STROKE and I'M the bitch? Are you god damn serious?! There! I fucking TWEETED deeply personal business! I must REALLY care about him! All 3 of you can burn in hell. GET YOUR OWN DAMN LIVES and STAY OUT OF MINE. And Michele, I realize that having 5 kids by 5 different men raised by everyone but you leaves you with a lot of time on your hands, but find a new fucking hobby. JIM, Michele has tried to pass off your baby as Stephen's. And Stephen, Michele says you physically abuse her while she's pregnant and she has been advised to tell the police, but she won't because you won't let her. There! Now it's all on twitter because I fucking care! @phenson @mrlicon @micheleanderson @jmelander1975

 If I'm not mistaken, which I am most definitely not, you directed messaged this to 4 people... yet your comment says that 3 people can burn in hell.

On Thursday 3rd February 2011, @moodienews said:

FYI: Because reading AND comprehending is apparently too much to ask, I'd like to clarify that the people who can go to hell were the ones I actually named and tagged in my last tweet. And last I checked, none of those people are 6 years old.

And Jim, this pic is just for you. http://twitpic.com/3w7tb7

To avoid any further confusion: That's your baby momma trying to contact her EX mother-in-law through her ex mother-in-law's personal blog to tell her that the baby she is carrying is her grandchild. Whether it is or not doesn't actually matter. Just thought the various baby daddies would like to know!

I tweet, therefore I fucking care.

@phenson @jmelander1975 @mrlicon @micheleanderson 

Yep, you said it was directed at the ones you named... however again you directed it to 4 people... not the 3 you mention previously.

Moodie

On Friday 4th February 2011, @moodienews said:

Did I forget to mention Michele had to create a new blogger account just to post that? That's because we blocked her the last time she tried to harass us through our personal blogs. But we're stalking her, right?

I tweet because I care, people!

@phenson @jmelander1975 @mrlicon @micheleanderson

You need to seriously check your facts on this one. I commented (And I do not deny the comment for even a moment.) from my own blogger account. The very same that I am using now. Click the link from the blog and by all means, view my profile. It's one and the same. ;)

The funny thing about all of this is, despite your claims and slander, I have yet to get anywhere as vulgar and spiteful as you. I haven't made any accusations about you or your parenting ability. I haven't brought your children into this period. I simply pointed out that while the claim was that you were SO busy with the retreat that you couldn't see your father... you were really just sitting on your butt watching TV and tweeting about it. Especially since this claim was made to make Stephen feel guilty about not being there. It wasn't even directed at you, it was pointing out something that was wrong with claims your mother was making.

I still with your father all the best and I just miss you to pieces you sweet thing. Kisses!

Love,

Chele

It never fails, I love my stalkers.

Put info out there one post here, one post there and BOOM you can prove you're being stalked when they finally explode and post the given misinformation. There is a reason you're not blocked from where I post stalker. There is a reason that I have trackers on all my sites. It's not to gather personal information, as it doesn't, it simply records where people visit my site from, even when using a proxy. It's to prove that even when we have NO interaction what so ever... you're always watching me.

Notice how my facebook links to ALL the places I belong? That isn't coincidence. I'll repost the long list here if you'd like. Stalk all you want. I'll keep putting it out there for you to feed on, I know you need the drama. The hours you spend on your bum watching TV don't seem to quite do it for you. Ironic that you love Big Brother so much. It's like legal stalking.

What is really sad, is rather than simply addressing your father's poor condition. You completely flip out and lose it even wishing my 6 year old would burn in hell, along with Stephen and I of course.

You're such a good person. :) You are certainly your mother's daughter.

Regardless, I still wish your father well.

Love and kisses,

Chele

P.S. Accusing Stephen of shooting at y'all at the retreat. I am still laughing from that one. <3

A comment re-post

As per Phenson's request, I am re-posting this so that my ex in-laws don't miss it. I think that is why I am re-posting. Either way, it's well worth doing.

Phenson said...

I support this post 100%, and to my ex-family (I consider myself an orphan) revel in the end result of your selfish, petty, and stubborn behaviors that pushed her where you always wanted her, away from me. Many times, completely distraught, crying, panicked, I pleaded and begged you not to exclude my wife the way you did. But you did not care, you couldn't stand that I ran away from you and was so happy with her. 

You crushed my whole world, you destroyed everything I ever truly loved, you killed the only thing I was sure of, the one thing I searched for so long to find. You didn't care how in love we were, how much we adored each other, how incredibly uncommon our bond was, she wasn't what you wanted for me, and you made it WELL known every single time we needed any kind of help and had to lean on you. You acted like borrowing money to us gave you the right to belittle, pass judgement, and be flat out cruel to my wife. Job well done, you got what you wanted, she's gone. But so am I, because before things snowballed with the divorce, YOU ignored the simplest of requests, you didn't like her and couldn't be bothered with making her feel welcome, you couldn't even go grocery shopping with her, you were always too busy. But you had plenty of time to gossip and talk shit about her behind her back, while lying to her face. You were too old, too lazy, too controlling, too busy, selfish, petty, hypocritical, stubborn, malicious, and jealous little bitches, and pissed on the one thing that made me truly happy to be alive. It has been 2 years, and NO, it has not gotten easier, I am in constant agony over losing her, agony over what my family put her through, agony over the things I let you beat into me and how I let you manipulate me into doing your will through my divorce, because that will never go away, I can never repair that damage, and it fucking hurts every moment of every day, watching her rebuild hers and the kids lives through the extra hardships we have caused for her and them. 

My broken heart, shattered dreams, and complete hopelessness comes from YOU, not her, and if it weren't for her, I'd have killed myself to escape this nightmare a long time ago, but it is her compassion that has intervened. I owe her my life, and I'll spend the rest of my life loving, caring, and helping her no matter where she is in life, because she deserves nothing less.

August 4, 2010 4:50 AM 

Oh Megan...

Hide my ass, doesn't work *that* well and it doesn't work at all when you're checking from your iPhone lol. You know, if you want to know about me so badly... you could always ask me.

You could have treated me better when I was married to your brother. You could have treated him better his whole life. You could get over yourself and realize how much you fuck up the lives of those who meet you. Poor Christy, never saw you coming when you stole her husband from her.

I would ask if it's painful for you to read that, but I know you're heartless. Hell, if it wasn't for your mom and your parents money, you'd have no one and nothing. Kind of sad.

No worries. I still love ya! Kisses! Oh, and give your mommy kisses for me too. <3 Oh, here is a reference book for your future surgery choices. Hope it helps!

My ex in-laws

Are hypocritical, judgmental, and crooked.

Spying on me on the internet... or trying to... as if I have a secret life. Then emailing my ex about it, as if he gives a rats ass about what the have to say (They have been dead to him for over a year.) or about what they told him.

They think they're so perfect, they're so self ritious it's pathetic... and they have NO sense of family what-so-ever. The wrote off their completely innocent, then 3 year old, granddaughter. They don't give a shit that she is about to have no home, and that they played a HUGE role in that. They don't care about her birthday, or Christmases missed with her. Nope, they're too high and mighty.

Tell you what, Karma... is a bitch and I hope it swallows them whole. I always said that after suffering from anxiety and agoraphobia, I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.... that is the least of what I feel they deserve in life.

Maybe I will just go ahead and pursue all the charges against them that I was going to let go. After all, they caused hell in my life, it seems fair that I cause some in theirs.

To the Anderson and the Ferreris "families" HAHA.... kiss my pretty white ass, no wait, you don't even deserve that privilege.

P.S. Megan... since your ugly ass had to get so much plastic surgery to look semi-decent... although jesus christ went a bit nuts with the big Jay Leno chin... are you going to do the same if your kids end up looking like the real you? What if they act like you? Is there a surgery for that?